70 Sex Questions to Ask Your Partner: What Do You Know About Your Partner's Sexuality?

70 Sex Questions to Ask Your Partner: What Do You Know About Your Partner's Sexuality?

If you are in the early stages of your relationship, or even if you've known each other for years, it's always nice to play a small question game. Playing games with your partner is a terrific method to discover things about each other that you didn't know before you started dating. The following questions and discussion starters might help you learn more about your partner's sexual needs and dreams.

While not every question will relate to you or your partner, you may choose which ones to use to get the two of you smiling. While some are more flirtatious and seductive, others are a little more risqué.

Good luck with your questions!


  1. What's your nastiest sexual fantasy?
  2. How many people have you had sex with?
  3. What is the awkwardest place you've had sex?
  4. What do you like most about my body?
  5. Have you ever tried anal sex?
  6. What would you like me to be wearing right now?
  7. Where on your body do you like to be touched the most?
  8. When was the last time you had a sexy dream?
  9. Where would you most like to have sex?
  10. At what age did you have sex for the first time?
  11. Who did you have the best sex of your life with?
  12. What's your favorite sex position?
  13. Have you ever been caught by someone during sex?
  14. Do you watch porn?
  15. What types of porn do you like?
  16. How often do you masturbate?
  17. What sex position do you want to try the most?
  18. Do you prefer to give or receive?
  19. What was your most memorable orgasm?
  20. Have you ever swam naked?
  21. Have you ever had sex with your co-worker?
  22. What would you do if I told you I wanted to have sex right now while we were hanging out at night? 
  23. Have you ever sent nudes to anyone?
  24. Which celebrity would you like to have sex with?
  25. Have you ever had group sex? Would you like to do it?
  26. What's the most sex you've had in a day?
  27. Are you loud or quiet during sex?
  28. Have you ever used food during sex?
  29. Have you ever taken a video during sex?
  30. What is the first thing you notice about a person sexually?
  31. Do you have a fetish for anything?
  32. Are you open to trying BDSM? How far would you go?
  33. What's your favorite sex toy?
  34. Do you read erotic stories?
  35. Have you joined the mile-high club?
  36. Can you take off my underwear without using your hands?
  37. Would you say you're kinky?
  38. Do you like to have sex in the shower?
  39. Where's the most exciting place you've ever masturbated?
  40. Do you like to be spanked?
  41. What was your most embarrassing sex moment?
  42. Have you ever thought about someone else while having sex?
  43. What would you do if I caught you masturbating?
  44. Have you ever had a forbidden love?
  45. Have you ever cried during sex? Why?
  46. Do you make eye contact or close your eyes during sex?
  47. Do you like to kiss during sex?
  48. Do you feel tired after sex?
  49. How many sex positions have you tried ever?
  50. How long you've ever gone without sex?
  51. How high is your libido?
  52. What's the easiest way to seduce you?
  53. Do you turn off the lights while having sex?
  54. Do you like to talk dirty?
  55. Have you had sex in a car?
  56. Do you prefer to be dominant or submissive?
  57. One-night stand or a long-term relationship?
  58. Do you like to be on top or bottom?
  59. What do you want to do besides sex in bed?
  60. What time of the day do you like to have sex more?
  61. Hardcore or romantic?
  62. Quickie or marathon session?
  63. What do you like to do most in foreplay?
  64. Would you dress up for me in bed?
  65. What is your favorite place to kiss?
  66. Do you like sexting?
  67. What do you like most about our sex life?
  68. What was the shortest time you had before you had an orgasm?
  69. What was the longest time you had before you had an orgasm?
  70. How would you like to make me orgasm?

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